Dude you’re solid. That’s exactly what I did, and she gave me a shot lol now I’m playing it cool like a playa playa, she double triple and quadriple texting your boy LOLOL

I think language barrier also plays a role here. Things can be taken out of context or the wrong way real quick if the English is not the first language. But yeah somehow I got the balls to turn this whole thing around. Ya boy will say less and listen more, guaranteed. She even agreed to my forthcoming “I like you” message and decided to give me a shot. LOL

We are chatting about rap songs from her culture. We are back in business! Your boy is one step closer to losing his nervousness virginity.

That shit worked, we’re talking again. Let me not screw this up again. She’s telling me about how tired she is probably from work.

Dag nabit I wish this whole encounter was in real life, I would have been wooed her by now and made her mine but these god damn text games are something otherwordly af.

I went with Hii (her name) and she responded. Wonder if I should send your message now LOL

Alright, you know what I’m going to take a deep breath and do exactly that. Yolo in this bitch. (not calling her a bitch lol)

Oh my god. I’m reading my messages with her right now, I’d ghost me too smh. Fuck.

They don’t make hats big enough for my dumb ass. God I’m so dumb, like I should just play it cool and not get so damn nervous!!

I mean it’s only been 2 days now…

Do I mention my screw up? I really want to let that ghost stay a ghost and try a different approach. I really like this one and maybe I can make something out of it.

Alright, just don’t laugh at me or cringe or call me a simp. She said she’s a traditional girl, etc. I took that to mean she likes a guy who takes charge, is motivated, studying, etc. So I rambled about how guys should protect and provide for their woman. Because that’s what I learned from MY parents. Anyways, something about this sentiment didn’t sit right with her I guess. She asked me if I would go to mars for her, I said I’ll go to Jupiter and back etc. I think after that, she probably lost interest. Don’t know. In the beginning it was all cute and cuddly like the Penguins movie. It all went down hill and now I’m sitting here embarrassed, somewhat sad, and just wish I could have had the benefit of the doubt instead of getting left on read and her moving on to some other guy.

Should I play it cool and just slide into her DMs a week later like nothing happened? Or move on.

But I think an L is like super embarrassing and you NEVER want the L…Anyways, man she’s so beautiful. Fuck I wish I didn’t fumble and just played it cool.

An L is when you’re the loser basically. You take your “Loss” or embarrassing “L” and move on. It’s a young people thing…