otter_band@sh.itjust.works to Comic Strips@lemmy.world · 2 years agoWomen Should Just Be Honestsh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square3linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
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minus-squaregid@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 years agoWhile it might feel rough for you, it’s worth remembering that a lot of women have faced very real threats of violence for their upfront honesty. If you’re only getting vague signals then maybe that’s the sign that she’s not fully into you.
minus-squareli10@feddit.uklinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·edit-22 years agoI feel like this is very dismissive and also ignores that lots of relationships do inevitably start with vague signals. “Yeah, well, women have it worse so your feelings are irrelevant and it’s okay if they ghost you.” As I said in my original comment, I get it. But it doesn’t take away from the fact that it’s a difficult situation for men. Being dismissive of men’s feelings and not letting them talk about how dating is difficult for them isn’t helping anyone.
While it might feel rough for you, it’s worth remembering that a lot of women have faced very real threats of violence for their upfront honesty.
If you’re only getting vague signals then maybe that’s the sign that she’s not fully into you.
I feel like this is very dismissive and also ignores that lots of relationships do inevitably start with vague signals.
“Yeah, well, women have it worse so your feelings are irrelevant and it’s okay if they ghost you.”
As I said in my original comment, I get it. But it doesn’t take away from the fact that it’s a difficult situation for men.
Being dismissive of men’s feelings and not letting them talk about how dating is difficult for them isn’t helping anyone.