It wasn’t totally catastrophic, but it still sucked because I liked this girl. She was complaining about someone she knew acting all bitchy and envious towards her, talking about going to the gym or something, so I wanted to set myself to compliment her and asked “well do you go to the gym?” and instead of her just saying “no” so that I could reply “because you don’t have you, you’re already incredibly attractive she’s just envious of that” she says instead “no wonder you’re still single Asafum, you’re an asshole.”
I mean, implying that a woman would only go to the gym to make herself attractive is kind of an asshole thing to do, I don’t think dropping your line would’ve changed her mind
I know it’s not the only reason. The conversation was like 15 years ago so I don’t remember the specifics, but the context was essentially about looks and going to the gym. I just wanted to say she already “won the competition” without having to do anything extra because she’s already beautiful.
It wasn’t totally catastrophic, but it still sucked because I liked this girl. She was complaining about someone she knew acting all bitchy and envious towards her, talking about going to the gym or something, so I wanted to set myself to compliment her and asked “well do you go to the gym?” and instead of her just saying “no” so that I could reply “because you don’t have you, you’re already incredibly attractive she’s just envious of that” she says instead “no wonder you’re still single Asafum, you’re an asshole.”
…ughh
I mean, implying that a woman would only go to the gym to make herself attractive is kind of an asshole thing to do, I don’t think dropping your line would’ve changed her mind
I know it’s not the only reason. The conversation was like 15 years ago so I don’t remember the specifics, but the context was essentially about looks and going to the gym. I just wanted to say she already “won the competition” without having to do anything extra because she’s already beautiful.
So she got annoyed because she thought you were going to start insulting her too?
I think she took it as me suggesting that she should or that she needs to to improve herself