• FauxLiving@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      When we decided to mind our own business and stop moralizing other people’s relationships based on our personal feelings.

  • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago
    > be me 34
    > decide to look for a hag around my age
    > most of them have at least one kid, usually the annoying kind, and only see you as a babysitter
    > same ones are also super focused on their kids, no hobbies, no interests, no life
    > most of them seem to be super conservative
    > some of them are so bigoted they can only talk about "those people"
    > finally found someone who's bearable for more than 20 minutes
    > never mind, she's alcoholic
    > finally found someone not alcoholic and is bearable for even more time
    > never mind, she's both 300+km away and also married
    How do I find hot singles on the fediverse? I'm not reinstalling Tinder!
    
  • Ashenlux@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 months ago

    Exactly! Why the fuck would anyone want to date someone that much younger than them? I will never understand why so many men want to date girl so young.

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      5 months ago

      People are feeling all kinds of pressure these days. If they want to have kids they need a lot of resources. But having a lot of resources is really difficult to do when you’re young. So that naturally suggests a compromise: one old with resources and one young with health.

      • Ashenlux@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        5 months ago

        Wait, but I thought men hated “gold diggers”? And also, that’s the result of our fucked up late stage capitalism economic system and not how things should work. A young couple should be able to afford to live comfortably and have children if they want.