• NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip
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    1 day ago

    Social networking is about connecting people

    Well Lemmy is not about that at all. I know absolutely Zero people from lemmy.

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      1 day ago

      That seems to be a you problem.

      Of course it is an pseudonymous online forum, so it isn’t about making friends in real-life, but you can make plenty of connections with people online via it.

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        18 hours ago

        That seems to be a you problem.

        That isn’t a problem, it is by design. I don’t want to follow you or anyone else. I don’t want to promote myself either. I absolutely do not want to make any connections with people here. I read the aggregated subject feeds, I get clarity or insights from the comments. And that is where it ends. Anonymity makes this all work.

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          18 hours ago

          Yes, and that is what connecting people means… talking to each other. NOT promoting oneself in a one-to-many fashion like what social media is about. Anonymous or not is of lesser relevance but it works either way.

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            18 hours ago

            Annonymity is extremely important. I don’t know you, you don’t know me. Nothing I say matters, nothing you say matters. There is no tone, no personality, just words. You could be a liar or a bot, it makes zero difference.

            That isn’t very social at all.

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              17 hours ago

              Eh? It is what I say that matters. You have a very strange world view if you think just because there is only a pseudonym attached it doesn’t matter. And of course conversing with others is social 🙄

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                17 hours ago

                And you have a weird world view if you think being social is leaving posts on a forum to reply to some rando you will never know.

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                  16 hours ago

                  Again, that seems to be a you problem. There are plenty of places on Lemmy that have very recognizable regular posters and comenters you can socially interact with 🤷